In our journey through life, we often encounter situations where forgiveness becomes necessary. It is a powerful tool that allows us to let go of resentment, anger, and hurt, and embrace a sense of inner peace. To forgive is to remember that nobody is perfect and that we all stumble when we least expect it. It is a reminder that each of us has said things we regret, and that love should always take precedence over being right.

Although as a society we don’t like to talk about death and dying, most people have a wish that they will die peacefully, with dignity, and without any pain. Having your end-of-life instructions and financial affairs in order will give you and your loved one’s peace of mind.

I found that writing was helpful for me in processing what I was going through while I was taking care of my Grandmother at the end of her life. Most of us are not prepared at all for what to expect as someone gets nearer to the end of their life.  I am sharing my experience and my new perspective from what I know now as a death doula.