In our journey through life, we often encounter situations where forgiveness becomes necessary. It is a powerful tool that allows us to let go of resentment, anger, and hurt, and embrace a sense of inner peace. To forgive is to remember that nobody is perfect and that we all stumble when we least expect it. It is a reminder that each of us has said things we regret, and that love should always take precedence over being right.

Religion and spirituality are two intertwined aspects that hold immense significance for individuals across the globe especially as they face the end of life. In this blog post, we explore the complexities of religion, spirituality, and their roles in the lives of older adults. Furthermore, we emphasize the importance of respecting diverse beliefs and practices while providing end of life support to clients in their religious and spiritual journeys.

Stephen Jenkinson’s journey began with a profound realization—dying individuals deserve a language that acknowledges and respects their reality. Together, we explore the importance of bridging the gap between the dying and their loved ones, medical professionals, and the wider community.

Although as a society we don’t like to talk about death and dying, most people have a wish that they will die peacefully, with dignity, and without any pain. Having your end-of-life instructions and financial affairs in order will give you and your loved one’s peace of mind.

A Death Doula is a non-medical person trained to care for someone holistically, taking into account the whole person’s needs at the end of life. The doula helps to make sure their emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical needs are met.

Death Doulas are people who support people in the end-of-life process, much like a midwife or birth doula does with the birthing process.

Living with the end in mind will help to make your journey through life a meaningful one. When people are dying and look back on their life, it is easy to see how many dreams had been pushed aside and almost always because of other people’s thoughts and opinions on those dreams. When you honestly surrender to the idea that you will die, you understand that being alive at this moment is the most important thing.

I found that writing was helpful for me in processing what I was going through while I was taking care of my Grandmother at the end of her life. Most of us are not prepared at all for what to expect as someone gets nearer to the end of their life.  I am sharing my experience and my new perspective from what I know now as a death doula.

When I heard the term Death Doula it was one of those moments when your life changes and you feel it right away but you don’t know exactly in what way. I immediately texted a friend and told them that I heard of the most amazing career, a Death Doula, and from that moment on I have worked towards building this business and this chapter in my life where I can continue doing what I have always loved doing. Helping people live their life with a clear idea of what they want to feel. In this case, it may be for a few days, a few months, or a few years but what better gift is there than to find peace with our life?